Friday, February 22, 2013

College stuff

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 Option #5:  A range of academic interests, personal perspectives, and life experiences adds much to the educational mix. Given your personal background, describe an experience that illustrates what you would bring to the diversity in a college community, or an encounter that demonstrated the importance of diversity to you.

           Diversity is imperative to societal success; I have seen personally what happens to a society that is not diverse. Paraguay does not embrace other cultures in women’s rights, environmental issues, or individual preferences. Even in the smallest aspects Paraguayans rejects cultural differences. In United States, by embracing the ideas of everyone, a society can move forward.
         Though I have always been mentally different than the average person, from my opinions, vegetarian life style and personal hardships, back in the United States I fit in pretty well physically; I am an average girl, blonde hair, average height, with a natural tanned complexion. After spending three years of my life at Denver East High school, one of the most culturally diverse high schools in Colorado, I decided that I wanted to learn a language and see the world. I enrolled in Denver Online High School and made one of the biggest, best and most challenging decisions of my life so far, to go abroad with AFS Intercultural Programs to Paraguay.
That is where I sit today, in Paraguay, in the one hundred and twenty degree heat.  Coming from Denver and being a regular at Keystone and Breckenridge ski resorts, an all American girl, not quite fluent in Spanish, and definitely not fluent in the second language Guarani, let’s just say I do not quite fit in. I have never missed diversity quite so much in my life. Here in Paraguay, the people, for the most part are physically all the same: black hair, brown eyes and average height. Generally when there is someone that looks different, it is due to cosmetic alteration or to being a person from Peace Corps, AFS, or a Mormon organization. With looks aside, the average person in Paraguay has the same thoughts and opinions on many things.
            Paraguayans do not value the preferences of others´ opinions and tastes regarding food. For instance, if I dislike a food it is because I hate their culture not because I do not enjoy the food. My host father told me that it is a matter of choice if I like the food because it is completely mental. He expressed that I am rejecting Paraguayan culture by simply not enjoying tomatoes. In the United States, I was a vegetarian. However, when I decided to move to Paraguay I did a lot of research and learned that meat was a huge part of their diet. Therefore, I decided to give up my beliefs for a year to better embrace the culture of Paraguay.
           Being a woman here is hard, because when it comes to women, the beliefs are that they belong in lower level jobs, or in the house, and are to be seen and not heard.  When it comes to education, the men believe the issues that are present are because there are too many women that are teachers. When the women are asked about their opinions, they are too scared to voice their own opinions around the males. Though life here as a women is very difficult, it is astounding how tightly knitted the families are, because the women spend a great deal of time in their homes and they devote themselves primarily to their families. I embrace their value of the closeness of the families.
        One of the largest issues in Paraguay at the moment is that Lake YpacaraĆ­ has turned a repulsive murky green color because of the trash and phosphate dumping. To the Paraguayans, this is a governmental issue and not a personal one. Because the government has not created regulations on dumping, the people do not think that it is their responsibility. Therefore, they keep on dumping. The government is attempting to solve these issues with the environment by banning certain chemical concentrations, but it will take a lot of time given the attitudes of the people.
         Over the past seven months I have come to love this country, yet I am giddy to go home in four months. I am looking forward to seeing my family, friends, starting college and having a variety of perspectives due to the diversity of people in the United States. It becomes exhausting, while living in Paraguay, to have my opinions put aside by the reasoning that either: I am a woman, therefore my opinion is irrelevant, and I have no idea what I am talking about, or because I am from the United States, so I must not respect any other cultures, therefore, my opinions are not valid. It will be refreshing to be back in United States where the values of women are embraced.  
            By comparing my hometown, Denver, Colorado, to Paraguay, I see how diversity affects people and their surroundings. In Colorado, people do not commonly reject new knowledge. Also, people collaborate to design buildings and memorials, which then become more than just a buildings or places, they become art. When people from diverse cultures have produced something together, it is like art. By seeing how different Paraguay and Colorado are, I understand the necessity of diversity. I also understand that there is a lot that goes into building a successful country. Diversification of a society is a huge part of a country´s ability to move forward in the areas of environment, psychology, and education.
            I see more and more every day here how diversity is so important, because it allows people to open their minds to new ideas and concepts. Diversity brings openness, discussion, learning and respect for people from different ages, cultures, colors and economic classes. It also increases the intelligence in different sections of learning, by exchanging different knowledge that the other may not be familiar with. I feel that if Paraguay´s culture were more diverse, it would improve socially and economically, as well as educationally. I will be sad to have to leave my friends and life here in Paraguay, from the nice people to the relaxed lifestyle. However, I am grateful to be returning to United States where diversity valued.


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